Critical Conversations

Research shows the narrative of blacks in American history dates back over four hundred years.  And  laws prohibiting slavery dating back to 1964.  Fifty-six years, short in comparison to the number of years that african americans had lived in the United States. The mentality of slavery, racism and discrimmination still resides, in the hearts and minds of many.  I remember visiting the courthouse in south Georgia in the early seventies, shortly after desegregation.  I remember seeing the discolored wall where the whites only sign once hung.  One over the water fountain and on the wall for what was once the whites only waiting room.  I remember recognizing that the signs were gone, but the behaviors of blacks and whites were the same.  African Americans still drank from the water fountain for blacks. And whites continued to drink from the whites only fountain.  The signs were gone, but the behaviors had not changed.  I remembered thinking, "how long would it take for our practices and behaviors to change.  Our thoughts, beliefs and feelings drive our actions.  When beliefs, thoughts and values are built on racism and bigotry, it is difficult to hide the truth of your heart.  No matter what words you use, your true feelings and beliefs somehow show through. For years and years racism has been taught, passed down from generation to generation. Children typically believe what parents teach them, until they are old enough to learn better through personal experiences and knowledge.  At some point, we all have to make a decision.  At some point, we all become responsible for our thoughts, values and beliefs. And become responsible for our actions. We have to find our voice.  And we have to challenge racism, bigotry and hate whenever we see it. And for those who continue to perpetuate it and those who continue to tolerate it can prepare to be ubcomfortable as we participate in critical conversations........